What should I do?

[RedeemedChild]

Guys a miracle happened week before last week. My ex-girl friend finally spoke to me for the majority of an entire day. However today I think we might have hit rough waters again. :(

I had been looking all over the internet for a girl that I'd met a back in 2002. Her name is Desiree C. However she and I had a falling out and I mean a serious falling out. She betrayed my trust and did just about everything she could to make me feel worse than a blackened pancake. And whats more she got pregnant when she had told me that she was virgin and did not believe in having blinky before marriage and so on and what not.

However she told me that she appreciated the time we had together but that she had other "plans and relationships" to take care of and with that she gave me the kind of hug that a wet fish would give you if it could and she ran up the steps and that was the last I've seen of her with the exception of some very tantilizing photos on facebook.

Anyway she has been hinting at and trying to get me to come out of the shadows. I really love Desiree but I promised myself and my much distressed mother that I'd stay away from Desiree. However last night Desiree told me that she lost her job and that she needs money to pay her rent and that she can't afford to be out on the street with her children. She has all but directly asked me to intervene but I mean what am I supposed to do?

Desiree believes that if I loved her I'd aid her but how can I simply helpe her at the expense of my own family? And besides she treated me like a dead rabbit in a rabbit hole?

Guys the girl is finer than emo lifestyle and I'm very much torn up over the matter. What should I do? I'm desperately lonely. And I really want to have a relationship with a girl that loves me and won't use me for what she can get out of me. It's like I'll never get over Desiree. She is so addicting.

[Trennas]

And that's what she's probably counting on. Even if your feelings for her are genuine, from the sound of it she doesn't seem to have any for you, but just wants your help and your money. If you give in, the only thing you're probably going to get is more disappointment that you can handle.

Sorry, but as a responsible adult I'd say.. She got herself in the mess, so it's up to her to get out of it. Whatever you do, don't give her any money. What she really needs is to learn to take care of herself.

[Lonsome_Drifter]

I'm gonna be blunt here, Redeemed.
It sounds to me like the girl just wants a handout from you. She most likely knows your feelings toward her. She didn't care how she treated you before, so when she gets into a rough patch in life, she comes back wanting help.
It's a tale that's as old as the Earth.

I can't tell you what to do; but, it would be the best if you refuse to help her. It sounds to me that she just is going to use you and then dump you. I know people like that.
You should just forget about her and meet some girl that is worth your time.

[Jack Nelligan]

Guys a miracle happened week before last week. My ex-girl friend finally spoke to me for the majority of an entire day. However today I think we might have hit rough waters again. :(

I had been looking all over the internet for a girl that I'd met a back in 2002. Her name is Desiree C. However she and I had a falling out and I mean a serious falling out. She betrayed my trust and did just about everything she could to make me feel worse than a blackened pancake. And whats more she got pregnant when she had told me that she was virgin and did not believe in having blinky before marriage and so on and what not.

However she told me that she appreciated the time we had together but that she had other "plans and relationships" to take care of and with that she gave me the kind of hug that a wet fish would give you if it could and she ran up the steps and that was the last I've seen of her with the exception of some very tantilizing photos on facebook.

Anyway she has been hinting at and trying to get me to come out of the shadows. I really love Desiree but I promised myself and my much distressed mother that I'd stay away from Desiree. However last night Desiree told me that she lost her job and that she needs money to pay her rent and that she can't afford to be out on the street with her children. She has all but directly asked me to intervene but I mean what am I supposed to do?

Desiree believes that if I loved her I'd aid her but how can I simply helpe her at the expense of my own family? And besides she treated me like a dead rabbit in a rabbit hole?

Guys the girl is finer than emo lifestyle and I'm very much torn up over the matter. What should I do? I'm desperately lonely. And I really want to have a relationship with a girl that loves me and won't use me for what she can get out of me. It's like I'll never get over Desiree. She is so addicting.


From reading your last paragraph, its sounds like you know exactly what this girl is trying to do, so if you go down that road, you will have only yourself to blame!

My advice to you is, RUN, like Forrest Gump, just keep running! When I was a teenager, my father came me some really good advice about the opposite sex and I’ll share it with you now because I think it fits your situation. He said, “son, every girl has “one”! The point of his advice was to remember that there are always options and not to settle for what you think at the time is the greatest thing in the world, when there could be something even better waiting for you down the road.

I have one more thing to add and that is this, don’t
think with your crotch and don’t get fooled into taking care of another man’s kids!!! Ok, that was 2 things! :whip:

[RedeemedChild]

From reading your last paragraph, its sounds like you know exactly what this girl is trying to do, so if you go down that road, you will have only yourself to blame!

My advice to you is, RUN, like Forrest Gump, just keep running! When I was a teenager, my father came me some really good advice about the opposite sex and I’ll share it with you now because I think it fits your situation. He said, “son, every girl has “one”! The point of his advice was to remember that there are always options and not to settle for what you think at the time is the greatest thing in the world, when there could be something even better waiting for you down the road.

I have one more thing to add and that is this, don’t
think with your crotch and don’t get fooled into taking care of another man’s kids!!! Ok, that was 2 things! :whip:

LOL. That's good advice my friend. And “son, every girl has “one”! was simpy to funny beyond words. I still can't stop laughing.


I'll simply tell Desiree I can't help her and simply ignore the puppy eyes and tears number. Man, she sure knows how to go through the crying and pleading motions. She gave it to me so bad last night that I almost broke down and cried with her. After all I was so disturbed last night that I found myself unable to sleep. I slept not a wink. I don't know HOW exactly to tell Desiree because she is going go through the whole "you don't love me" thing but I'll keep thinking of something.

[Jack Nelligan]

LOL. That's good advice my friend. And was simpy to funny beyond words. I still can't stop laughing.


I'll simply tell Desiree I can't help her and simply ignore the puppy eyes and tears number. Man, she sure knows how to go through the crying and pleading motions. She gave it to me so bad last night that I almost broke down and cried with her. After all I was so disturbed last night that I found myself unable to sleep. I slept not a wink. I don't know HOW exactly to tell Desiree because she is going go through the whole "you don't love me" thing but I'll keep thinking of something.

From what I hear, she’s the one who doesn’t love you and you should tell her to go cry to the father of her kids!

[RedeemedChild]

From what I hear, she’s the one who doesn’t love you and you should tell her to go cry to the father of her kids!

Wow, you said the same thing my friends and my mother told me. Bummer, that guy left Desiree sometime before the beginning of last year and she has not seen him since. She spent this pass weekend trying to find a way to celeberate her favorite son's birthday but she can't afford to do parties anymore.

I wish she had payed attention when I tried to tell her that guy was gonna leave her after he used her for a sex machine and got bored of her but she thought he'd make a better husband than me a "geek" as she called me back in 2003. Snesh, why do girls always want lazy guys who look and act like Chris Brown? That's a big, fat fairly tale for bloody Santa Maria's sake. BTW Chris Brown beat and messed up his wife (Rihanna). I wonder if Desiree saw that by any chance?

It's frightning how girls live in fantasy bubbles.

[Stoo]

It's frightning how girls live in fantasy bubbles.You've single-handedly proven that some boys do, too. Anyway, that's a pretty generalizing statement you've made there. Shame on you.:down:

[Trennas]

Fantasy bubbles are not just lived in by girls you know. Many a man has suffered the same thing in one way or another. For example, your fantasy bubble probably consists of you being her knight in shining armour, after which you can go living happily ever ever after.

But yeah, I'm glad you do realize what's at stake here, as troubling as it may be to resist the puppy eyes. Maybe the best thing you can do is break the news as quickly as possible, leave and never look back. Sounds harsh, but once the tears come... chances are she'll just reel you back in..

bloody sirens :p

[Rocket Surgeon]

You've single-handedly proven that some boys do, too. Anyway, that's a pretty generalizing statement you've made there. Shame on you.:down:

Stoo, your comment on a member here who isn't an Indiana Jones fan got me wondering and God help me, only 16 of Rod's last 100 posts mention Indiana Jones.

Lego and the animated petition.

Child, do you belong to other msg boards?

I have a feeling Todds are going to come up even shorter.

[Lonsome_Drifter]

Stoo, your comment on a member here who isn't an Indiana Jones fan got me wondering and God help me, only 16 of Rod's last 100 posts mention Indiana Jones.

Lego and the animated petition.

Child, do you belong to other msg boards?

I have a feeling Todds are going to come up even shorter.

I think I know who he's referring to.

[Rocket Surgeon]

He may be referring to my wife. She did say on here that she was not a big fan of the Indy movies lol.

Ah...

well I'm back anyway, seems Todd's totals are 11/100 and that was mostly explaing Indy experiences having NEVER seen a single film, (but having an opinion regarding bringing Mutt back).

Lonesome has your wife seen the films?

Todd, wouldn't a bible study forum or Christian themed message board more fitting your style?


Do you consider it strange posting on a message board regarding a character whose films you've never seen?

I mean it would be like going to a Clone Wars message board and posting Young Indy content...

Does anyone have a better analogy?

[Stoo]

@Rocket: To quote Yoda, "No...there is another...";)

@Redeemed: Get some hair on your chest and tell her to take a hike!:whip:

[Lonsome_Drifter]

Ah...

well I'm back anyway, seems Todd's totals are 11/100 and that was mostly explaing here ndy experiences having NEVER seen one of the films, (but having an opinion regarding bringing Mutt back).

Lonesome has your wife seen the films?

Yes, she has seen the films quite a few times. She likes the movies, but she's not a crazy fan. She did not like KotCS however.

[Nurhachi1991]

Have her over,Bang her than don't call her let her know how it feels:up:

But I know you wouldnt do that so I dunno just talk to her I guess

[Jack Nelligan]

Wow, you said the same thing my friends and my mother told me. Bummer, that guy left Desiree sometime before the beginning of last year and she has not seen him since. She spent this pass weekend trying to find a way to celeberate her favorite son's birthday but she can't afford to do parties anymore.

I wish she had payed attention when I tried to tell her that guy was gonna leave her after he used her for a sex machine and got bored of her but she thought he'd make a better husband than me a "geek" as she called me back in 2003. Snesh, why do girls always want lazy guys who look and act like Chris Brown? That's a big, fat fairly tale for bloody Santa Maria's sake. BTW Chris Brown beat and messed up his wife (Rihanna). I wonder if Desiree saw that by any chance?

It's frightning how girls live in fantasy bubbles.



Here’s another bit of wisdom that you should take to heart,

“no matter how good looking a girl is, there is a guy somewhere who is tired of F------ her!” source unknown, but very smart.

RUN>>>>> RUN>>>>>> RUN!!!!

[Indy Scout 117]

Guys a miracle happened week before last week. My ex-girl friend finally spoke to me for the majority of an entire day. However today I think we might have hit rough waters again. :(

I had been looking all over the internet for a girl that I'd met a back in 2002. Her name is Desiree C. However she and I had a falling out and I mean a serious falling out. She betrayed my trust and did just about everything she could to make me feel worse than a blackened pancake. And whats more she got pregnant when she had told me that she was virgin and did not believe in having blinky before marriage and so on and what not.

However she told me that she appreciated the time we had together but that she had other "plans and relationships" to take care of and with that she gave me the kind of hug that a wet fish would give you if it could and she ran up the steps and that was the last I've seen of her with the exception of some very tantilizing photos on facebook.

Anyway she has been hinting at and trying to get me to come out of the shadows. I really love Desiree but I promised myself and my much distressed mother that I'd stay away from Desiree. However last night Desiree told me that she lost her job and that she needs money to pay her rent and that she can't afford to be out on the street with her children. She has all but directly asked me to intervene but I mean what am I supposed to do?

Desiree believes that if I loved her I'd aid her but how can I simply helpe her at the expense of my own family? And besides she treated me like a dead rabbit in a rabbit hole?

Guys the girl is finer than emo lifestyle and I'm very much torn up over the matter. What should I do? I'm desperately lonely. And I really want to have a relationship with a girl that loves me and won't use me for what she can get out of me. It's like I'll never get over Desiree. She is so addicting.
love is a serious *****...you love it, but you hate it at the same time...but yeah it is addicting...im not sure what to tell ya about your situation in perticualr. sorry dude...:(

[IndyWolf15]

love is a serious *****...you love it, but you hate it at the same time...but yeah it is addicting...im not sure what to tell ya about your situation in perticualr. sorry dude...:(
I told my brother to forget her, but he got really mad at me. I met her at a friends house and she took care of me when my mom was busy you can say she took care of me alright. She missreated me a lot. She got pregnet at 17 and her bf droped her like a hot cake. I can't see how my brother would want to be with her after all the boys shes done it with. I pray and hope some other girl will take my brother into neverland and who is truly a good person at heart.

Lol everytime RC says her name my mom has a mini heart attack in a way.

[Robyn]

It's frightning how girls live in fantasy bubbles.

Girls like to live in fantasy bubbles huh? Hmmm.. There's quite a few little boys who like to live in them as well. ;)

Ask yourself these questions:

Are you a boy or a man?

Do you want a girl or a woman?

To me it doesn't sound like you ever really want to let this girl go.. One minute you're calling her a stingray, the next minute you're picking "she loves me, she loves me not" petals over her. It sounds like you know this "girl" well enough to realize she's only using you, so you're under no illusion about her. It's time for you to make up you're mind once and for all Ryan. :hat:

[Violet Indy]

Being honest, RC, I thought you'd have better taste in women. The girl's bad news. I'm going to pretty much echo the guys on this when I say, tell her there's nothing you can do to help her coz you're still young and you're still starting your life. Tell her to go to her family or a counsellor for help and then, shut off all communications with her or you will end up hurting yourself and your family.

And as for that fantasy bubbles comment, I've met and worked with guys in their 30s who are still playing video games, riding motorbikes and are in temporary jobs acting like they're still teens and cry immediately when stressed out. If you had said that women play mind games, I certainly wouldn't argue with you; because that is true with most women (then there's the few that tell ya straight, like me).

“son, every girl has “one”!

So do a few guys I know..... ;)

[RedeemedChild]

Being honest, RC, I thought you'd have better taste in women. The girl's bad news. I'm going to pretty much echo the guys on this when I say, tell her there's nothing you can do to help her coz you're still young and you're still starting your life. Tell her to go to her family or a counsellor for help and then, shut off all communications with her or you will end up hurting yourself and your family.

And as for that fantasy bubbles comment, I've met and worked with guys in their 30s who are still playing video games, riding motorbikes and are in temporary jobs acting like they're still teens and cry immediately when stressed out. If you had said that women play mind games, I certainly wouldn't argue with you; because that is true with most women (then there's the few that tell ya straight, like me).

So do a few guys I know..... ;)

Well Violet Indy you've got quite a bit of wisdom. I thank you for what you've said and yes I guess I was wrong about young women living in fantasy bubbles. After all I guess my own fantasy bubble was hoping that Desiree would love me and daydreaming about having a life with her. Granted I really did want to give her a second chance but I guess you can't give a person a second chance if they won't allow you to give them one. Besides I don't want to hurt my family. My mother is already quite worried about me, she says Desiree never had my best interest at heart from the beginning.

I also want to thank you Robyn for your kind but to the point statement.

I know it's time to let go of Desiree and I better start letting go now. I've got collage to focus on and my duty should be to helping my parents financially and not getting caught up with "bad girls." However I do want to have a relationship with a nice Christian young woman. I mean is something wrong with wanting to be loved and to love? I mean I don't watch Twilight for nothing!

[Robyn]

Well Violet Indy you've got quite a bit of wisdom. I thank you for what you've said and yes I guess I was wrong about young women living in fantasy bubbles. After all I guess my own fantasy bubble was hoping that Desiree would love me and daydreaming about having a life with her. Granted I really did want to give her a second chance but I guess you can't give a person a second chance if they won't allow you to give them one. Besides I don't want to hurt my family. My mother is already quite worried about me, she says Desiree never had my best interest at heart from the beginning.

I also want to thank you Robyn for your kind but to the point statement.

I know it's time to let go of Desiree and I better start letting go now. I've got collage to focus on and my duty should be to helping my parents financially and not getting caught up with "bad girls." However I do want to have a relationship with a nice Christian young woman. I mean is something wrong with wanting to be loved and to love? I mean I don't watch Twilight for nothing!

You're welcome Ryan, the girl basically needs a lot of help, and not the kind you can give her... And there's nothing wrong at all with you wanted a girl to love, it's good that you do ;) But you won't find one until you can finally let THIS one go! And don't look to Twilight for real life examples!:gun:

[Jack Nelligan]

Being honest, RC, I thought you'd have better taste in women. The girl's bad news. I'm going to pretty much echo the guys on this when I say, tell her there's nothing you can do to help her coz you're still young and you're still starting your life. Tell her to go to her family or a counsellor for help and then, shut off all communications with her or you will end up hurting yourself and your family.

And as for that fantasy bubbles comment, I've met and worked with guys in their 30s who are still playing video games, riding motorbikes and are in temporary jobs acting like they're still teens and cry immediately when stressed out. If you had said that women play mind games, I certainly wouldn't argue with you; because that is true with most women (then there's the few that tell ya straight, like me).



So do a few guys I know..... ;)




More than a few that I know!!!! :up:

[Rocket Surgeon]

Desiree Hmmm, where's that Christian Charity?

Who are the "least of my brothers" that Jesus spoke of in Matthew 25 if not Desiree and her bundle(s) of love, (albeit with another man)?

When you stand before God and he askes you why: ___________?
What will you say? My mom told me not to? The Indiana Jones Community led me astray?

Can you discern between the feelings in your heart, your head and your crotch?

Good luck to you, brother.

[Jack Nelligan]

Hmmm, where's that Christian Charity?

Who are the "least of my brothers" that Jesus spoke of in Matthew 25 if not Desiree and her bundle(s) of love, (albeit with another man)?

When you stand before God and he askes you why: ___________?
What will you say? My mom told me not to? The Indiana Jones Community led me astray?

Can you discern between the feelings in your heart, your head and your crotch?

Good luck to you, brother.


Give a man a fish and he eats for a day, but teach a man to fish and he eats for a lifetime!

Giving is not always the truly charitable thing to do, or the best way to help someone!

[Rocket Surgeon]

Give a man a fish and he eats for a day, but teach a man to fish and he eats for a lifetime!

Giving is not always the truly charitable thing to do, or the best way to help someone!

For I was hungry, and ye gave me meat: I was thirsty, and ye gave me drink: I was a stranger, and ye took me in:
Naked, and ye clothed me: I was sick, and ye visited me: I was in prison, and ye came unto me.
Then shall the righteous answer him, saying, Lord, when saw we thee hungry, and fed thee? or thirsty, and gave thee drink?
When saw we thee a stranger, and took thee in? or naked, and clothed thee?
Or when saw we thee sick, or in prison, and came unto thee?
And the King shall answer and say unto them, Verily I say unto you, Inasmuch as ye have done it unto one of the least of these my brethren, ye have done it unto me.

Jesus 1 / Jack Nelligan 0

[IndyWolf15]

You're welcome Ryan, the girl basically needs a lot of help, and not the kind you can give her... And there's nothing wrong at all with you wanted a girl to love, it's good that you do ;) But you won't find one until you can finally let THIS one go! And don't look to Twilight for real life examples!:gun:
Hi Robyn nice to see you :D

BTW Robyn, RC wants my mom to find him a gf, so maybe his done with Desiree for good. He hasn't talked with her for years until he found her on Facebook and couldn't stop thinking about her recently so he spoke to her, and then she started telling him all her problems :rolleyes: and after that she started showing photos of her which were totally sick!:sick: And I told Ryan to forget her, but he said no. I hope sense you and Violet which are young ladys talked to him, he will forget the bad egg :mad:

[Nurhachi1991]

Hi Robyn nice to see you :D

BTW Robyn, RC wants my mom to find him a gf, so maybe his done with Desiree for good. He hasn't talked with her for years until he found her on Facebook and couldn't stop thinking about her recently so he spoke to her, and then she started telling him all her problems :rolleyes: and after that she started showing photos of her which were totally sick!:sick: And I told Ryan to forget her, but he said no. I hope sense you and Violet which are young ladys talked to him, he will forget the bad egg :mad:


Pics or it diddnt happen

[Jack Nelligan]

For I was hungry, and ye gave me meat: I was thirsty, and ye gave me drink: I was a stranger, and ye took me in:
Naked, and ye clothed me: I was sick, and ye visited me: I was in prison, and ye came unto me.
Then shall the righteous answer him, saying, Lord, when saw we thee hungry, and fed thee? or thirsty, and gave thee drink?
When saw we thee a stranger, and took thee in? or naked, and clothed thee?
Or when saw we thee sick, or in prison, and came unto thee?
And the King shall answer and say unto them, Verily I say unto you, Inasmuch as ye have done it unto one of the least of these my brethren, ye have done it unto me.

Jesus 1 / Jack Nelligan 0



She is not:
1. a stranger.
2. without clothes
3. sick
4. hungry
5. incapable
6. or incarcerated

What it sounds like to me is that she is simply trying to coerce him into making her life easier and the expense of his own needs, even though she is more than capable of helping herself.

I doubt that Jesus would want this guy to be taken advantage of!

Jack 2 / Rocket 0 :whip:

Jesus is in a league of his own!!!

[Rocket Surgeon]

RC wants my mom to find him a gf...
After all: "A boy's best friend is his mother."- Norman Bates

Ah Jackson, Jackson, Jack, son...you go on trying to push him "your way" instead of "God's way". Don't labor under some misconception that the Good Lord is all "touchy feely", Sunshine and Lolipops.

Then he shall say to them also that shall be on his left hand: Depart from me, you cursed, into everlasting fire, which was prepared for the devil and his angels. For I was hungry and you gave me not to eat: I was thirsty and you gave me not to drink. I was a stranger and you took me not in: naked and you covered me not: sick and in prison and you did not visit me. Then they also shall answer him, saying: Lord, when did we see thee hungry or thirsty or a stranger or naked or sick or in prison and did not minister to thee? Then he shall answer them, saying: Amen: I say to you, as long as you did it not to one of these least, neither did you do it to me. And these shall go into everlasting punishment: but the just, into life everlasting.


Satan +1, (extra credit to Jack Nelligan), RS ?

[RedeemedChild]

Give a man a fish and he eats for a day, but teach a man to fish and he eats for a lifetime!

Giving is not always the truly charitable thing to do, or the best way to help someone!

Thanks. Common sense must prevail. Furthermore the Bible does not encourage presumption (i.e. going back to Desiree when I know I'd be walking into obvious trap.)

So no, I'm going to move forward as it would be good for both myself and Desiree. I'm going to dodge skype and facebook for a while so I can stay away from puppie eyes.

[Jack Nelligan]

Thanks. Common sense must prevail. Furthermore the Bible does not encourage presumption (i.e. going back to Desiree when I know I'd be walking into obvious trap.)

So no, I'm going to move forward as it would be good for both myself and Desiree. I'm going to dodge skype and facebook for a while so I can stay away from puppie eyes.


Sounds like a good plan...stay strong!!!!!

[Stoo]

After all I guess my own fantasy bubble was hoping that Desiree would love me and daydreaming about having a life with her.From everything you write/post here, it's easy to see that your fantasy bubble extends far, FAR, FAR beyond just that. As Pete Townshend once said, "It's beyond the beyond...":eek:

In another thread you mentioned that you were more sexually active when you were 8 years old than you are now at 20-21.:confused: "What should I do?", you ask. Get off the computer, put your video games away, GO OUTSIDE and LIVE LIFE instead of coming to an Indiana Jones message board to hem & haw over some trailer-trash sleazebag and post pictures of your favourite fantasy films/games. That's my advice.:whip:

[Jack Nelligan]

From everything you write/post here, it's easy to see that your fantasy bubble extends far, FAR, FAR beyond just that. As Pete Townshend once said, "It's beyond the beyond...":eek:

In another thread you mentioned that you were more sexually active when you were 8 years old than you are now at 20-21.:confused: "What should I do?", you ask. Get off the computer, put your video games away, GO OUTSIDE and LIVE LIFE instead of coming to an Indiana Jones message board to hem & haw over some trailer-trash sleazebag and post pictures of your favourite fantasy films/games. That's my advice.:whip:



Touch love!!!! Go Stoo!!!

[Rocket Surgeon]

Touch love!!!!(spelled correctly)???

I don’t think so genus!

Ah the Kettle draws a picture for the (cracked!) Pot.

[RedeemedChild]

Sounds like a good plan...stay strong!!!!!

Thanks Jack.

As for you Stoo, I thought your were a nice guy but now you've crossed the line. What the heck do RPG's, High Fantasy and Lord of the Rings have to do with getting a good wife?

[Stoo]

As for you Stoo, I thought your were a nice guy but now you've crossed the line. What the heck do RPG's, High Fantasy and Lord of the Rings have to do with getting a good wife?Well, I never mentioned any of those titles, just your apparent obsession with fantasy-related video games/films. You want to find a girlfriend/good wife? Put down your DSi, go OUTSIDE OF THE RV and meet some chicks! Don't let your religion "cock block" your natural urges. It's not rocket science...

There is no crossed line because I AM TRYING TO HELP YOU! You're here asking for advice and I'm giving it. If my recommendations are too blunt for your tastes then, PLEASE, take your problems elsewhere (Dear Abbey, Ann Landers, Rev. Lovejoy, etc.).:whip:

[Violet Indy]

Hi Robyn nice to see you :D

BTW Robyn, RC wants my mom to find him a gf, so maybe his done with Desiree for good. He hasn't talked with her for years until he found her on Facebook and couldn't stop thinking about her recently so he spoke to her, and then she started telling him all her problems :rolleyes: and after that she started showing photos of her which were totally sick!:sick: And I told Ryan to forget her, but he said no. I hope sense you and Violet which are young ladys talked to him, he will forget the bad egg :mad:

^ That's why I left Facebook. It's more trouble than it's worth.

From what RC is saying, I think he is going to be ok. It will be a bit of a rough patch at first, and he will need your and your parents support. He just needs to find something that will distract him from his feelings for her. It's definitely not the best time to look for a new GF just yet. He needs to get over this one. After some time, then it will be ok for him. There are good girls out there, unfortunately though, it's the bad ones that seem to get the attention (especially in high school and the early college years). There is plenty of time to have a GF yet and there's a bigger world out there waiting to be explored. Once you've got a serious relationship it becomes pretty hard to see the wider world.

[IndyWolf15]

^ That's why I left Facebook. It's more trouble than it's worth.

From what RC is saying, I think he is going to be ok. It will be a bit of a rough patch at first, and he will need your and your parents support. He just needs to find something that will distract him from his feelings for her. It's definitely not the best time to look for a new GF just yet. He needs to get over this one. After some time, then it will be ok for him. There are good girls out there, unfortunately though, it's the bad ones that seem to get the attention (especially in high school and the early college years). There is plenty of time to have a GF yet and there's a bigger world out there waiting to be explored. Once you've got a serious relationship it becomes pretty hard to see the wider world.
Thank you, I hope my brother will hopefully enjoy this info. Its weird how he gets with the wrong ones. Plus he is very shy both of us really. He wants my mom to find him a girlfriend.

[RedeemedChild]

Well, I never mentioned any of those titles, just your apparent obsession with fantasy-related video games/films. You want to find a girlfriend/good wife? Put down your DSi, go OUTSIDE OF THE RV and meet some chicks! Don't let your religion "cock block" your natural urges. It's not rocket science...

There is no crossed line because I AM TRYING TO HELP YOU! You're here asking for advice and I'm giving it. If my recommendations are too blunt for your tastes then, PLEASE, take your problems elsewhere (Dear Abbey, Ann Landers, Rev. Lovejoy, etc.).:whip:

Thanks Stoo. I appreciate your kind and insightful advice. I'm in the mall now and there are quite a few nice girls, especially the one that took my order at Chick Fil A. Snesh, she is so COOOOOOOOL.

[Jack Nelligan]

Thanks Stoo. I appreciate your kind and insightful advice. I'm in the mall now and there are quite a few nice girls, especially the one that took my order at Chick Fil A. Snesh, she is so COOOOOOOOL.


I bet she has "one"!!!!!:up:

[JuniorJones]

The boy with the thorn in his side
Behind the hatred there lies
A murderous desire for love
How can they look into my eyes
And still they don't believe me ?
How can they hear me say those words
Still they don't believe me ?
And if they don't believe me now
Will they ever believe me ?
And if they don't believe me now
Will they ever, they ever, believe me ?
Oh ...

The boy with the thorn in his side
Behind the hatred there lies
A plundering desire for love
How can they see the Love in our eyes
And still they don't believe us ?
And after all this time
They don't want to believe us
And if they don't believe us now
Will they ever believe us ?
And when you want to Live
How do you start ?
Where do you go ?
Who do you need to know ?

Oh ...
Oh no ...
Oh ...
La ...