Canyon
Well-known member
Recently, something very big has come up in my life which I thought that I needed to share with you.
This is something that came up a couple of months ago, and is something that I have been meaning to post for some time.
There is no easy way to say this but I?m afraid that both me and my husband Iain have decided to part.
Firstly, as I have said above, this is something that came up a few months ago. I would just like to point out that this is an amicable split, and there is no animosity between us. We have also decided that we would like to remain friends as we have known each other for eleven years, and still respect each other as people.
For several months now, myself and Iain have been drifting further and further apart and we have both decided that it would be best to break it off now before it gets to the stage where resentment begins to set in and we end up hating each other. We have looked at the situation and have decided that this would also be for the best, especially as neither of us have children, and we do not want it to get to the stage where we are just staying together because this is what we are used to. To be honest with you, both myself and Iain are very different people to what we were eleven years ago and over the months, we have both gone in different directions and both want different things.
I would also like to point out that in no way has this happened because of my interest in Indiana Jones and the time that I spend on the internet. Both myself and Iain spend a lot of time on the internet, and I hope that people don?t think that we have split because of my other interests. Despite the fact that I do have a great love of all things Indy and indeed films in general, this has never gotten in the way of our relationship.
I am posting this because I consider you guys to be my extended family. Iain will be keeping the computer, and I will therefore have to buy a new one when I move into my next place. Also, I am posting this news, because in the next couple of months, I will be offline for a few weeks, getting settled into my new flat (wherever that will be!) and it may take me some time to get a computer set up etc, but I will let you know when this is nearer the time. We are now looking at selling the house and along with getting a divorce and finding a new place to live, this means that we are both looking at a very stressful time in our lives.
I know this news must be of a great shock to some of you, but I had to let you guys know because I look upon all of you as my extended family and have a great deal of respect for all of you.
I think this qualifies as one of the hardest posts that I have ever had to write, and I sincerely hope that its not been too difficult for you to read.
Stella (a.k.a. Canyon)
This is something that came up a couple of months ago, and is something that I have been meaning to post for some time.
There is no easy way to say this but I?m afraid that both me and my husband Iain have decided to part.
Firstly, as I have said above, this is something that came up a few months ago. I would just like to point out that this is an amicable split, and there is no animosity between us. We have also decided that we would like to remain friends as we have known each other for eleven years, and still respect each other as people.
For several months now, myself and Iain have been drifting further and further apart and we have both decided that it would be best to break it off now before it gets to the stage where resentment begins to set in and we end up hating each other. We have looked at the situation and have decided that this would also be for the best, especially as neither of us have children, and we do not want it to get to the stage where we are just staying together because this is what we are used to. To be honest with you, both myself and Iain are very different people to what we were eleven years ago and over the months, we have both gone in different directions and both want different things.
I would also like to point out that in no way has this happened because of my interest in Indiana Jones and the time that I spend on the internet. Both myself and Iain spend a lot of time on the internet, and I hope that people don?t think that we have split because of my other interests. Despite the fact that I do have a great love of all things Indy and indeed films in general, this has never gotten in the way of our relationship.
I am posting this because I consider you guys to be my extended family. Iain will be keeping the computer, and I will therefore have to buy a new one when I move into my next place. Also, I am posting this news, because in the next couple of months, I will be offline for a few weeks, getting settled into my new flat (wherever that will be!) and it may take me some time to get a computer set up etc, but I will let you know when this is nearer the time. We are now looking at selling the house and along with getting a divorce and finding a new place to live, this means that we are both looking at a very stressful time in our lives.
I know this news must be of a great shock to some of you, but I had to let you guys know because I look upon all of you as my extended family and have a great deal of respect for all of you.
I think this qualifies as one of the hardest posts that I have ever had to write, and I sincerely hope that its not been too difficult for you to read.
Stella (a.k.a. Canyon)