This is an odd post for me...
Subtitled: Judge not, lest you be judged...
People
do judge others on their ability to express themselves, or often, their choice
not to express themselves. What is a common statement heard after the following scenario?
***A man reaches for the last Slim Jim and then finds his wife was too drunk to go out and get the dog food, so she fed the last Slim Jim to their toy poodle who frequently relieved himself on this guys pantleg while he was watching television. He gets pissed and takes out his shotgun and blows the wife's head off while she is sleeping. Now, in a rage - the poodle is the next to go (or maybe the first, depending on whether it was a spicy Slim Jim or a regular one). A neighbor comes to the door and wants to ensure everything is all right. BAM! Three down. Later, after the police have pumped 700 rounds into this guy, the news team interviews the neighbors that did not get killed in the rampage. What do they say?***
"He was always such a quiet guy. He kept to himself, mostly."
There are characteristics in everybody that are often contrary to what they show on the outside. I have found that people write in a manner different from the way they speak. Spelling a word wrong because it is an obvious typo is more acceptable to most than spelling it wrong because you do not have a
dictionary. Either way, the best way to improve is to keep posting
. Everybody has valuable information to share and unless it is a word that completely changes the meaning of a post, I am happy to have the chance to read that persons input.
Personally, I hate making spelling errors. As a novice writer, I like nothing more than to re-read a post and see that it is free of errors. I give myself little mercy when I misspell a word and you will often see that I have edited my posts. Mostly, for spelling errors that I did not catch the first time. However, I do not judge the intelligence of others based on the way they spell or speak.
My grammar is atrocious and I am trying to write using fewer contractions and I am trying not to end a sentence with a preposition whenever possible. Once I get the hang of this, I will choose another grammatical faux pas to attempt to improve upon. Writing gives you the time you need to refine what you are trying to say, while speaking does not. In the end, it is up to you whether you choose to use that time.